The classic character most like you
Socrates
The professional question-asker
Apology · Plato
- VTogetherEnergy
- MMindJudgment
- PPlanPace
- IImagineVision
Hear 'that's just how it is,' and 'but why?' pops out on its own. Like Socrates, you honestly admit what you don't know and dig for the real answer through conversation. Everyone who talks with you ends up thinking a little deeper.
Things a Socrates type often says
- But why is that so?
- I don't really know either. Let's think it through.
- What is justice, really?
In a group, I'm
Debate moderator, chief question-asker
As a friend, I'm
The friend who answers your worries with a better question
When stressed
You walk and talk to yourself to sort things out. One good conversation clears your head.
Sound familiar, Socrates type?
- You fall into deep talk even with someone you just met
- 'That's just how it is' makes you ask 'why?'
- You work through a question step by step, all the way down
- Beyond what you see, you wonder what a good life really is
Where you shine
- Never stops asking
You don't stop at 'that's just how it is'. Asking 'why?' helps you find the real problem everyone missed. One question from you can change a whole discussion.
- Honest about not knowing
You don't pretend to know. 'I'm not sure either, let's think together' puts people at ease and deepens the conversation.
- Brave about principles
When most people take the easy road, you quietly keep to principles you believe in. That steadiness becomes a standard for those around you.
Watch out for
A string of curious questions can make someone feel you're trying to prove them wrong, and they get defensive.
Try thisAfter two questions, listen to their whole answer once. Adding 'because I'm curious what you think' softens it a lot.
Thoughts breed more thoughts, and you can miss the moment to decide.
Try thisSet a time limit for thinking, then move with the best answer you have.
A famous scene
When the oracle says no one is wiser than Socrates, he sets out to understand it by questioning everyone reputed to be wise.
A line from the book
Open this book →the unexamined life is not worth living
Huckleberry Finn is your opposite on all four traits. Strange at first, but you have the most to learn from each other.
Books to read together
All the classic characters
- Anne ShirleyImagination on full blast
- Emma WoodhouseThe neighbourhood's master matchmaker
- HeidiWalking ray of sunshine
- Robin HoodCaptain of the crew
- Don QuixoteAll heart, full charge
- SocratesThe professional question-asker
- AliceCurious first, careful later
- Elizabeth BennetSharp eyes, sharper wit
- Jo MarchAlways on a writing deadline
- Jane EyreQuiet, but never silent
- Huckleberry FinnFree spirit, fast feet
- Mr. DarcyGruff outside, kind inside
- HamletOverthinking, as an art form
- Edmond DantèsPatience of a master planner
- Sherlock HolmesClues make your eyes light up
- Phileas FoggAdventure, right on schedule